I have always wondered what’s the most important thing that binds a couple. Trust? Loyalty? Communication? Sex? Well, all these are equally important in a relationship, yet this world has gone crazy after sex. Being an asexual is as hard as being a homosexual or bisexual or pansexual, you name it, you know it. But the acceptance of aces is yet less. I find it quite funny that people cry over their partner being only interested in sex and nothing else, and then, these people mock those aces who are not sexually attracted to anyone. What’s wrong with that? What’s wrong with the fact that I am not attracted to my partner’s genitals, but rather attracted to their looks, emotion and personality or all? Is sex that important? What if I don’t want a human being pushed out of my vagina, instead I want to give a family and home to an orphan? Isn’t the latter better? What if I just want to go on simple dates and not let them end with sex? What if I just want to cuddle my beloved and watch Netflix shows? We aren’t invalid, we aren’t broken, and our definition of a relationship is different than yours. If this works perfectly for both of us, why should anyone be bothered about it? A fictional character said, “sex doesn’t make us whole”, then why do people judge us based on sex? Am I missing out a lot? I guess not. Brownie points out; I don’t have sexual frustrations; I have romantic frustrations. I would get angry if my partner gives me late replies rather than if my partner doesn’t send me nudes. This world is crazy, I know. Maybe they are the Muggles and we are the wizards. *Wink*
~The Brown Ace